Are you stumped on Holiday gift ideas for the women in your life? Or are you still searching for the perfect gifts for the bridesmaids in your 2010 or 2011 wedding?
Well, I have a little tip for you. Several months ago I came across a Tweet from a fellow Twitter member "RitzyMisfit ." It was such an interesting Twitter name that I was intrigued to find out more.
It turns out that "Ritzy Misfit" is a custom jewelry company with a shop on Etsy owned by Brooke Mortensen. Mortensen also happens to be the name of one of my favorite bakeries in the entire world (more on that later), so I knew these products would be good :)
I am a firm believer in trying products and services before recommending them to others, so naturally I had to order a few items from Ritzy Misfit for myself! I ordered the "Yellow Rose Pendant" and Initialed "Mini with Crystal" Pendant (photos below).
There are many things I love about these pendants, but here are a few:
1) You can personalize them! You can choose the initial and the color of the pendant or the crystal on the pendant. You can also choose designs like a single rose, a lock, and even a dinosaur.
2) Every pendant is handmade, unique, and full of character. Brooke describes them this way:
"No one is perfect, but we are all beautiful. These pendants give the feeling of being beautiful, unique and rough around the edges all at the same time. My work reflects the wonderful, flawed idiosyncrasies in us all. And it makes us breathtaking."
3) The pendants already come with a chain.
4) The pendants have been worn by celebrities including the Bachelorette's Ali Fedotowsky and Jillian Harris, as well as former Playmate Kendra Wilkinson.
5) I can afford these pendants and so can you.
Mini Initial with Crystal Pendant:

The Yellow Rose Pendant:
Yellow rose pendant as worn by Ali Fedotowsky:



As some of you may know, I am a cupcake FANATIC. I may even qualify as a cupcake expert. (Well, in the eating that is- certainly not in the baking)
Several weeks ago, Kerry and I had the pleasure of visiting Vibiana. Both of us had such busy mornings that we didn't get a chance to eat lunch. Although we probably had enough time to grab a sandwich once we arrived to Los Angeles, we decided to look for cupcakes (much more fun than a boring sandwich).
I searched on my iPhone for cupcakes, and a place called Big Man Bakes came up. That's a funny name for a cupcake place I thought, but that actually made me even more curious to check it out!
Once we walked up to the shop, I saw a man sitting outside on the patio reading a newspaper. He resembled a professional football player, yet he had the sweetest smile. For some reason I felt compelled to introduce myself. As it turns out, this man is Chip Brown- owner of Big Man Bakes. And honestly, after meeting Chip and seeing his shop- the name could not be more perfect. Although Chip is a big guy, I like to think that the name refers more to his big heart. I only had the pleasure of speaking to him for a few minutes, but I liked him already. I could tell he is a truly genuine guy who is passionate about what he does. He gets up at 3:00 a.m. each morning to bake the cupcakes. Now that's dedication! For those reasons (and the facts that his cupcakes look and taste amazing), I am happy to introduce Big Man Bakes to our brides.
Read on to find out more about Big Man Bakes and the cupcakes they offer:
Big Man Bakes offers five different signature cupcakes. The "big flavors" are carrot cake, red velvet cake, double chocolate cake, the "old school" cake, and coconut cake. All of which make my mouth water just thinking about them! The red velvet cake recently took first "Best Traditional" category of the 2010 LA Cupcake Challenge. I normally don't like red velvet (weird I know)- but this red velvet is fantastic. Zesty Lemon is also available and addictingly de-lic-ious!
The cupcakes come in "XL" and mini sizes. Love that!
If I had to choose a favorite, that would be tough. So do yourself a favor, and bring a friend with you. That way you can try one of each and share. Or just take a pack of minis home with you.
Next time you get a little sweet tooth, I recommend taking a trip to Big Man Bakes. First bite and you'll be hooked! They're cakes are the way we love them...moist!
Oh, and if you do select Big Man Bakes for your wedding or special event, please make sure to save us a cupcake. I mean it's only fair- we did introduce you!
"Like" Big Man Bakes here: http://www.facebook.com/BigManBakes
Big Man Bakes is located at: 413 South Main Street, Los Angeles, CA 90013
Big Man Bakes Phone: (213) 500-4351



This Tuesday, Kerry of de Luxe Weddings & Events and I had the privilege to attend a venue tour of a property in Los Angeles, CA. And let me tell you- I fell in love!
I absolutely love old buildings, ones with lots of character and history: this former Archdiocese Cathedral was built in 1876, complete with Baroque inspired interiors. Check!
This venue was designed using a neutral color palette, so that all the colors and elements chosen in your design and decor will truly pop. A style and desinger's ultimate playground. Check!
Vibiana's choir loft is a photographer's dream because it allows us to capture those bird's eye view, scene setting photographs without having to climb up a tree or into another hotel guest's balcony. (Although Rob will do those things for the shot though- If that's what it takes.) Check!
Vibiana's carefully placed lighting fixtures throughout the Main Hall and the garden area makes adding up lighting or colored lighting a breeze for your DJ or event design team. Check!
As an added bonus, Vibiana provides a bridal lounge and a groom's lounge for the bride and groom to get ready along with their bridal party. Yes, the groom's lounge has a flat screen TV. The on premises day of accomodations are a huge plus because everyone can spend the day together and get ready all in one place instead of rushing around town. This is also a treat for us because we can easily move from room to room capturing photos of all the getting ready activities.
If you decide to do a First Look, we have a few romantic spots in mind already :) There are also several modern and also historic buildings located within walking distance if you would like to do a mini bridal shoot before the ceremony.
This is truly a hidden gem in downtown Los Angeles. I purposely chose to include just a few photos because although Vibiana photographs beautifully, an in person visit will truly allow you to experience all of its granduer.
If you are still searching for an amazing venue, take an afternoon and go check it out. And as they say at Vibiana: "Experience the Divine."
I owe a big thank you to Anika for giving Kerry and I a first class tour of Vibiana!
Vibiana is located at: 411 South Main Street Los Angeles, CA 90012 Phone: (213) 626-1507




What is the "First Look"?
To put it simply, the First Look is the first time on the wedding day that the groom sees the bride in her wedding gown, with hair and make-up complete.
But isn't it bad luck for the bride and groom to see each other before the ceremony?
In present day, this superstition is largely a myth. The tradition began when arranged marriages were the popular custom. Often, a bride's family was trying to marry their daughter into a wealthy/wealthier family to secure a dowry. The bride's parents did not want the groom to back out on what was largely a business transaction if the groom saw the bride and found her unattractive. Thus, the bride was not allowed to see the groom until the veil was lifted at the conclusion of the wedding ceremony.
While many couples find the tradition of not seeing each other until the ceremony romantic, a look at the history of the ritual reveals that it is in fact quite the opposite of romantic.
What are the benefits of a first look?
One of the most important benefits of a First Look is that it allows for a more intimate and romantic experience. At Jessica Elizabeth Photography, we often tour the wedding venue with the couple prior to the wedding to find the best locations that will allow for privacy during the First Look, so that the couple can enjoy the few moments together without distractions. This allows the couple to take a time out and just focus on each other with out all the other guests and details interfering. This helps the couple relax and creates much more genuine expressions which makes for better photos that truly capture who the couple is.
Since there is usually more time available for portraits prior to the ceremony, we often get to spend closer to 25 minutes instead of only 10-15 minutes taking portraits of the bride and groom during a First Look. This extra time often allows us to take photographs in a variety of settings and backdrops, as well as take not only traditional photos but also the more creative and artistic photos that our clients enjoy.
Based on the other elements of your wedding day timeline, the First Look often allows for time to take the family and bridal party portraits before the ceremony. This allows you more time to spend with your guests after the ceremony. This also allows your family and bridal party to spend more time enjoying the cocktail hour and reception.
Won't the first look make the ceremony "less special"?
During the ceremony, you are getting MARRIED. There is nothing that could possibly make the significance of that particular moment less special. You may have seen each other earlier in the day if you chose to go with the option of a First Look, but this time you, the bride, are walking toward your groom for the last time as a single person. You look at each other in an entirely different light at that moment and know that shortly you will be husband and wife.
When is it essential to do a First Look?
Well, if you are not doing a first look, then by default that means that all of your formal portraits as well as all the group portraits with the family and the bridal party must be taken AFTER the ceremony. We like to allow 30 minutes for the portraits of the bride and groom and at least 15 minutes each for the family portraits and the bridal party portraits. So, if the sunset occurs within one hour of the time your ceremony ends, it is essential to have a First Look.
Here in Southern California, we are blessed with plenty of sunshine, but the sunset time is of particular concern for weddings in the Fall and Winter (September-March).
Do you require us to do the First Look?
We don't require it. Like all other aspects of Jessica Elizabeth Photography, the experience is designed uniquely for each of our couples. The First Look is largely a personal preference. But honestly, you'd be kinda silly not to do it :)
Did you and Robert do the First Look at your wedding?
Of Course!!! And I can tell you right now that it didn't make the walk down the aisle any "less special." If anything, those 15 minutes during the First Look are some of my most favorite moments of my wedding day. We were able to escape from all the hustle and bustle that is a wedding day and spend just a few minutes together reflecting on the significance of the day and each other.
If you didn't get the hint by now, we highly recommend it!
Here is a peek at Ashleigh and Luke's first look. We had the entire rooftop pool deck at the Shade Hotel to ourselves for their First Look.


After a brief session on the rooftop, we had some time to take photos by the Shade Hotel's fountain, one of Ashleigh and Luke's favorite areas of the hotel.
We also had the opportunity, to spend some time at their ceremony site before all the guests arrived...so romantic!
And we even had a few minutes left to take some fun photos with the bridesmaids :)
Special thanks to their wedding coordinator Kerry Pulverman of de Luxe Weddings & Events who was instrumental in developing a photographic timeline with us and overseeing it on wedding day, so that we could fit in all these photos.
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